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The fluorescent insides of an opinionated mind

I am a blah blah blah, no. I am me and I do not like defining myself by labels. I agree with that they are important to identity with but I think it is absolute bullshit to use them to define you. You are you. These interests do not define me but gives you a little bit of insight into what makes my life that little bit sweeter: the 60s, feminism, vaginas, penises, full hairy sexy man legs, music, 20th century literature, vegetarianism, politics, anti-organised religion, musical instruments, antique furnature, indian material, lying by candlelight, fucking by candlelight, history, debates, pot, the Beatles, freak folk, trippy music late at night. I am brash and abrasive on a social level. Awkward on a first sight. Mushy on a personal level. I count myself as an Intersectional feminist, believe that feminism MUST be intersectional otherwise it's bullshit, and believe deeply in Queer Theory. Call me out if you wanna bro! Still learning about so much. I want to get my PhD in Gender Studies. Currently in my third year of uni. Feel free to ask anything or to start any debates about any topic.

Jun 26 '12
TW: rape

Society has allowed rapists to define what resistance is: screaming, crying, scratching, pushing, kicking, biting, punching. I didn’t resist like that. My resistance was to wriggle a bit, turn my head away when he tried to kiss me, try to stop his hand going into my bra and knickers, push him ineffectually, talk about wanting to get my cab; all things which normal men recognise as not being enthusiastic participation when they are engaging with women but pretend it’s a grey area when they talk about rape. Rapists have managed to get society to believe, that what I did, was consent.

Because I didn’t resist in the way rapists - and society - say that women should resist, they define our non-participation as consent.

A section of the article “How I became a rape victim”

(via sociolab)

BOOM, rape culture at work… Can I also add, when you are in a situation that involves rape or you think might involve rape or looks like it might involve rape in a few minutes, its usually pretty scary to scream and kick… Especially if you know this person and sometimes might even care about them and think they care about you too. It is much more likely that you’ll say “No.. Lets stop.. I don’t want to right now..” etc

(via jojoholmes)

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